Mean, filthy, and savage on the outside, soft dominance, emotional presence, and intentional intimacy to those who know him. Ryan Ruins is calm confidence with a knowing smile. He is a caretaker with a mean streak. Fluent in dirty talk, an expert at Brat Excorcisms, and an afficianado of aftercare cuddles, Ryan is as obsessive about making sure all of his submissive's needs are met as he is about breaking them down until they are a ruined, drippy little mess. Rules, discipline, patience, rewards. No pressure. Just quiet control, playful tension, and the feeling of being chosen. If you’re drawn to reassurance, gentle guidance, and someone who leads without raising his voice, you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Likes: Daddy time with the girls, drum and bass, hiking, giving gifts, giving piggyback rides, Jute rope, festival fashion, lifting heavy stuff at the gym, protein powder, mango flavored anything.